9 THINGS I LEARNED FROM TALKING TO 9 MILLIONAIRES
9 THINGS I LEARNED FROM TALKING TO 9
MILLIONAIRES
When I was having a conversation
with business leaders for my articles in my blog Seen life from afar - http://www.isdavido.blogspot.com / faceook page be mindful of your mind; I
didn’t realize the impact it would have on me. Getting the opportunity to talk
to dozens of successful people, inspiring individuals has been nothing short of
incredible.
Through
our conversations, I got access to some of their secrets and advice, what
motivated them, what helped them to get where they are today.
Here
are nine of their best success lessons (so far!), from them to me to you:
1. You are the sum of the five people you spend the most
time with
My
mom always used say, “Tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you
are.” And she was right on—because millionaires surround themselves with other
millionaires.
If
we really are the sum of the people who surround ourselves with, it’s so
important to surround
yourself with the right ones.
Successful people are always networking with each other at events, conferences
and mastermind groups.
2. Money in itself won’t make you happy.
But
money can buy you the freedom to do the things that can make you happy. True
happiness comes from filling your time and your days with meaningful
pursuits that you’re passionate about.
I’ve
met rich people who are incredibly unhappy and poor people in Third World
countries who are some of the happiest people I’ve ever encountered. The point
is that it’s possible to be happy right now, whether you have N20 or N200
million. By being grateful for what you have, for being alive and for having
this day, you’ll be more present and have better perspective.
3. “It’s not about the goal. It’s about becoming the type of
person that can accomplish the goal.”
Most
millionaires will tell you it’s not so much about making the money; it’s about
growing as a person, growing your business to a point where it’s capable of
making money. The journey is far more valuable than the destination.
And
once you’ve arrived, the question becomes, Now
what? That’s why it’s so important to
enjoy the ride and be grateful for how far you’ve come and what you’ve achieved
so far.
4. Get a mentor so you can get growing.
Find
someone you admire, look up to—someone who’s where you want to be—and ask them
for guidance to help you improve who you are and what you want to become. With
their advice, you’ll learn best practices, you’ll be challenged, you’ll be
better prepared to succeed.
5. Like to learn.
Every
entrepreneur and successful person I’ve met is a lifelong learner. They
understand the importance of constantly improving, constantly growing.
Driven
people self-educate through books, audiotapes, online courses, seminars….
They’re determined to always learn new skills, to keep developing as a person—to
never become stagnant. They never stop. Want to Reach Your Potential? Then Be a Learner
6. Two (or three or four) income sources are better than
one.
Millionaires
know how to put their money and resources to work for them. And almost all of
them have at least two or more sources of income—investments in financial
securities, real estate, angel investing, partnerships.
While
multiple sources of income certainly help them increase their wealth, they are
laser-focused on one income stream first then diversify once they’ve hit a
level of stability.
7. Hate the gym? Well, learn to hate it a little less.
Almost
every millionaire I’ve spoke with has some sort of rigorous workout
routine—weightlifting, marathons and triathlons, running. They are elite in
business and at the gym.
There’s
a correlation between breaking down barriers in fitness and breaking them down
in business and in your mind. They’re both about strength and confidence,
discipline and commitment. Weak won’t cut it. So get working on your
fitness—and the rest will seem a little less daunting.
8. Read—a lot.
And
I’m not talking about Harry Potter or Hunger Games. I’m talking
books with real, practical tips—for personal and professional growth, for
people who want to constantly improve themselves and their businesses.
Books
are a great way to learn from successful people who may have been where you are
now and have something valuable to teach you. It’s like having some of the best
business minds of our generation mentor you. Read a lot and read often.
9. Write down your experiences.
You
don’t have to blog to be a millionaire. But it wouldn’t hurt. A lot of
successful people are getting their start from blogging.
Blogging
is a powerful tool, because
by documenting your journey and inspirations, you go through a sort of
self-discovery, while also growing your reputation and business. If you’re not
ready to share everything on a public blog, try keeping handwritten journals
instead. The introspective writing process reminds you of what you’ve been
through and where you want to go. And writing down your goals is an incredible
way to make sure they happen.
Jim Rohn said it best: “It is challenging to be a student of your own life, your
own future, your own destiny. Don’t trust your memory. When you listen to
something valuable, write it down. When you come across something important,
write it down. Take the time to keep notes and to keep a journal” (or in my
case, a podcast or blog!).
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